Growing up fatherless herself, Jana Herde experienced the failed reconnection attempt her father made when she was 18. She later reached out to her father again in her late twenties having to navigate the complexities of that very difficult father-daughter relationship without any professional guidance.

Specialized coaching for parental alienation and reconnection is extremely rare, but Jana’s coaching offers a unique, compassionate but hands on approach to help you overcome these challenges. Her Father-Daughter Reconnection Training has helped countless fathers already to rebuild that father daughter relationship.

Jana provides personalized guidance and support to effectively help you navigate the difficulties of parental alienation.

If anyone is on the fence, don’t hesitate. I should have booked Jana long ago! She has real world, practical insight!
— M.S. Real client - Alienated father, US - father of 8 Kids
 
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"Less than 5 weeks in, we’re already seeing great progress. My daughter is back in our home and following the parenting schedule.”

Real testimonial from B.D, father of a former alienated daughter, US. 2023

 
Jana, the time you spent with me was priceless. Your coaching and guidance will never be forgotten.
(...) My brother and his daughter reunited on Thursday, after more than a decade of pushback and challenges.”
— Zena Fleck, US. - reached out to help her alienated brother.
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What do fathers want, when they book me as their coach for re-connection and/or parental alienation?

Stop feeling powerless and walking on eggshells.

Help their daughters TRUST them again.

Get proper guidance and practical advice that works for THEM.

Avoid fatal mistakes in the re-connection process, that made them fail before.

Stay on top of things & manage all sides involved with certainty, avoiding additional drama, anxiety and complication.

Navigate parental alienation or reconnection with certainty and confidence.

What do I promise you? 

Parental alienation or how to repair a father-daughter bond, is not often discussed from the father’s perspective. Before I talk to you:

  • I listen to you without judgement.

  • I understand your negative emotions; powerlessness, frustration, deep sadness, anger and WHY you feel them.

  • I know how the system can fail fathers & children.

  • I never give up on my clients.

  • I never recommend a program or training with me, unless I know it’s going to be a good match.

You want us to discuss your situation and find the tools you need?  let's talk. 


One of Jana’s strengths is her compassion. She listens to what is going on in the conversation and can home in with clarity on what people’s feelings are. She is then able to reflect those feelings and frame them in a way that is constructive, validating, and helpful. Conversations like this can end up having a clinical, analytical, almost academic feel to them. In this case I felt Jana’s concern for what my daughter and I were trying to do was personal and caring, yet professional at the same time. It is that balance that stands out for me.
— P. C.-B., Father from the US. after coaching with his adult daughter.